My boyfriend, me and a cat.

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Unfortunately my boyfriend does not listen to me so there's little that I can allow. He won't listen to me. Besides we barely talk each to other now.

The cat is not neglected though, it's receiving the attention and love from the person who wanted it - my boyfriend. He's feeding it and taking care about it, so the cat shouldn't be unhappy.

I'm sorry that I'm angering you all, but that's how I am. The cat is here so I will have to tolerate it, that much I understand.

I think now more than ever, I am correct that this issue is not the cat, but the relationship between you and your boyfriend and unfortunately this cat has become a symbol of those problems. He won't listen, we barely talk - that is just throwing up your arms and not dealing with the situation.

I did not want the cat in your home because I did not think you had the right attitude to have an animal in your home and that animal can sense your coldness. I plead with you, do more than tolerate the cat, try a little kindness. It might bring some self-discovery and some growth as a person. I do not want to not be understanding to your situation, but this is difficult for me to understand how a person can look at the face of a kitten, a puppy, cat, or dog and not have their heart melt.