09-26-2014, 01:40 PM
The bottom line is you really can't restrict who your partner is friends with. You say you want him to have a life aside from you, and that's a good thing, but you can't impose yourself into that life by telling him who he can and can't be friends with.
You admit there is some jealousy, which is normal (I feel) given the circumstances of the friends being exs.
The one thing that bothers me is this part below.
Why does he want to remain friends with someone who is "not very nice" and refuses to meet you?
You admit there is some jealousy, which is normal (I feel) given the circumstances of the friends being exs.
The one thing that bothers me is this part below.
rroepcke Wrote:from what my partner has told me appears to be a not very nice person. I have outright asked to meet him because I've met one of his other exes and we got along well and are now friends, but every time my partner asks him he says 'not interested, I don't care about meeting him and I don't want to know him'.
Why does he want to remain friends with someone who is "not very nice" and refuses to meet you?