09-28-2014, 03:59 AM
Beaux Wrote:Fuck it, I'll say it. I think he is fucking around on you. Why else would he want to be friends with someone who wasn't a "good person"? Why else would he not arrange for you two to meet? Yep, fucking around, imo.
I wouldn't go that far as to say that - He has also been pushing for his ex to meet me, it's the ex who won't/doesn't want to. Generally he is transparent and shows me text messages and opens snapchats in front of me, so I have no trust issues really with him - it's the ex who I think is scheming/has bad intentions.
I think he wants to be friends with his ex because he can't bear the thought of losing someone that he cares about in any capacity. We once broke up briefly and after a week of not talking he showed up at my house crying because he couldn't bear the thought of not being in contact - perhaps it's a similar situation.