Friends with ex-boyfriend.

[rroepcke]

Why does he want to remain friends with someone who is "not very nice" and refuses to meet you?

No idea - though my thoughts are that it's something similar that happened to us after a month of us being together. We briefly broke it off and while I'm quite cut-throat (I will cut off communication, friendship is a possibility but only once I've distanced myself from the romanctic/'more' feelings and replaced them with 'friend' feelings) he doesn't, he still wanted to talk and message every day and to go straight from being in a relationship to being friends. I have a feeling it's something similar with this guy.

There's also another aspect - my partner isn't too popular or social. I guess he values the few connections he has and doesn't want to lose those.