Tired of games

[Bowyn Aerrow]

All I am reading is massages - I may be a bit naive about the matter, but did he specifically tell you in that email that there is the proverbial happy ending (sex)?

If yes then he is cheating on you and he will continue to cheat on you until you present evidence of that cheating. And each time he lies about it and you appear to accept the lie the more confident he will be in the next episode of 'cheating on my spouse'.

Your final line 'aside from ripping my heart out and stomping up and down on it, he's a wonderful guy' (yes I paraphrased - slightly but honestly isn't this exactly how it feels?). I get the feeling that you are feeling the press of time and are bargaining the problem away.


IF these massages are more than just therapeutic deep tissue ones, then how many of those can you endure before you pop a cork and go ballistic over the matter?

Will that end better than printing up the email exchange and handing it to him and letting him read that you know what is going on and then being ready to discuss this with a bit more reason and rationality?