10-01-2009, 12:51 PM
I can’t see what all the fuss is about. I love porn and so does my partner. I have phases when I watch loads of porn and phases when I hardly watch it for weeks. Mostly we use porn as an extra stimulant when having sex. : I don’t fantasise that I am having sex with the guys in the video: that never crosses my mind. It is what it is: you are watching other people (who you will never meet) having sex. People get screwed up by worrying about all sorts of things related to sex. Porn is safe sex, uncomplicated and, as others have said, it’s much better than messing about and being unfaithful. An addiction is something which you must have in order to live. Porn is not like that, well not for me, anyway.