11-14-2008, 11:47 PM
To be honest, I think it applies principals of basic common sense - the more focused you become on something, the more likely you are to obtain it (in general terms, I don't mean marrying royalty or riding Mitch Hewer.) Even subconciously, for example, if you're angling for promotion at work, then you're more likely to actively demonstrate your strengths in front of your boss.
As for homophobia, I suppose the same applies - the more focused you become on it, the more likely you are to attract it, as you become less focused on your body language the more focus you give the issue. Basically applying the "Target Fixation" principle, where a fighter pilot becomes so fixated on his target, he flies right into it.
Just my opinion, mind ya. :tongue:
Ky xxx
As for homophobia, I suppose the same applies - the more focused you become on it, the more likely you are to attract it, as you become less focused on your body language the more focus you give the issue. Basically applying the "Target Fixation" principle, where a fighter pilot becomes so fixated on his target, he flies right into it.
Just my opinion, mind ya. :tongue:
Ky xxx