05-21-2009, 11:16 AM
It isn't about being forced into looking after something, I just know that naturally I'd follow down that route and put both me and the person in a position that made us miserable. Im not saying sure 100% NO I NEVER WOULD DATE A DISABLED PERSON. As disability comes in a variety of ways, just I would be less enthusiastic about dating a disabled person because I know the type of person I am.
Would it really be better for me to *love* someone and adapt into a carer role naturally than *love* someone that is disabled and let them go, knowing that putting us both in that position would be unfair? Sometimes the ones you love the most you have to let go, even if you don't want to, you just have to consider both parties.
(Hope that makes me sound less shallow? :S )
Would it really be better for me to *love* someone and adapt into a carer role naturally than *love* someone that is disabled and let them go, knowing that putting us both in that position would be unfair? Sometimes the ones you love the most you have to let go, even if you don't want to, you just have to consider both parties.
(Hope that makes me sound less shallow? :S )
[COLOR="Purple"]As I grow to understand less and less,
I learn to love it more and more. [/COLOR]
I learn to love it more and more. [/COLOR]