05-21-2009, 03:44 PM
I'm not sure if just the question of having sex. I mean no offense to anyone, but in the worst case scenario, you have to change your whole live to be with someone who can't do anything for himself.
A few years back, I dated a guy I knew from my hometown. He was sitting in a wheelchair since was involved in a car accident.
Even I knew him before the accident (although i did not know that he was gay) it was... difficult at first.
I visited him in the hospital and he asked me if i wanted "to do something together" when he came home. i was shocked first, basically because i thought he is straight but... it was difficult at the first time.
When we dated the first times I really felt uncomfortable. People starring, helping him rolling up chairs, looking for a table in the café where he can sit with the wheelchair etc.
But it was all a acquire of habit (?). You get used to everything. I really liked him, what is essential "to go through" that if you don't already are used to.
We definitively grew closer together, I learned a lot of things from him. I think I love him to the day a bit, at last he has a special part iin my heart for the rest of my live He showed me how important it is to be thankful for every day you have on this world and he changed my opinion to a lot of things i never thought of!
We were together nearly a ear before i had to move away with my mother
A few years back, I dated a guy I knew from my hometown. He was sitting in a wheelchair since was involved in a car accident.
Even I knew him before the accident (although i did not know that he was gay) it was... difficult at first.
I visited him in the hospital and he asked me if i wanted "to do something together" when he came home. i was shocked first, basically because i thought he is straight but... it was difficult at the first time.
When we dated the first times I really felt uncomfortable. People starring, helping him rolling up chairs, looking for a table in the café where he can sit with the wheelchair etc.
But it was all a acquire of habit (?). You get used to everything. I really liked him, what is essential "to go through" that if you don't already are used to.
We definitively grew closer together, I learned a lot of things from him. I think I love him to the day a bit, at last he has a special part iin my heart for the rest of my live He showed me how important it is to be thankful for every day you have on this world and he changed my opinion to a lot of things i never thought of!
We were together nearly a ear before i had to move away with my mother