I've had unprotected anal sex

[fjp999]

Shit could that be called rape??

No it wouldn't be because you had a relationship.

sorry to disagree Card... ya ever heard of date rape?

Yes, if you had sex against your will or were not in control of your emotions or physical being then it could very well be called rape... if you really want to go there, just a word after all these many years... sounds like just a horrible experience for ya and if ya can move on just try to move on... seems what youre saying is taht it is keeping you from being healthy, mentally and sexually