Hot and cold?

[Mdoc]

Could it be that with the fact you have never had sex, perhaps apart of you thinks that any partner your with will not know how to please you, or perhaps your just happy pleasing yourself and don't feel the need for sexual contact with another person but you do wish to have the emotional and mental comfort of having a partner?

There is a term for such a person but right now its not popping into my mind, im thinking asexual, but not sure that is the name for it. Perhaps someone else can help with that, or you can do a google search on such terms and it may help you feel more comfortable with yourself.