Openly gay but dislike (most) gay males?

[Anocxu]

Thank you all for contributing to this discussion. It means a lot to hear different opinions and voices of reason.



I think this is close to hitting the nail on the head. I may subconsciously choose to have friends who are less attractive than me, but often it just so happens that most video gamers rather spend time grinding than perfecting their hair style or physique.

It's definitely self-confidence and self-worth. Since growing up I was always the last pick for most things. Sports teams obviously, but also being invited to tables during school lunch, or actually given a chance to socialize. In (high) school, it didn't matter that I was really polite and smart (I was valedictorian). My fellow students literally gave zero fucks. I don't have a single friend from my entire decade + going through the school systems.

And I have a long history of being rejected (from my point of view). Every place (school, college, sports team, work, etc.), if I don't end up as some kind of leader, I'm a complete outcast. I guess that's because I know I can't beat most people at the game (in general I'm outclassed in all physically attractive attributes), so I don't bother to play if I'm not already in some kind of position of authority.
[MENTION=20738]TwisttheLeaf[/MENTION]

I certainly don't have good feelings about them. I don't ignore their existence, unless I've been rejected (enough).

I've thought of that analogy. But interestingly I'm actually bisexual. Yet, I have zero animosity towards attractive women. And if a girl I like does reject me, it doesn't bother me in the same way as a guy doing it. The only time I might not like a girl is if she would try to get involved with a partner of mine. Though I'm definitely more into guys than girls.

I just really don't like attractive gay men.

In a round about way you admitted disliking everything that you think is better than you.. or out of your grasp.

Are you reaching out to the members of this site because you think we are an ugly bunch?

Did you know that several very attractive members reached out to you in this thread?

What world do you live in where you can entertain Ideas of superficial hate?.

You listed a few things that I experienced in my youth.. the truth is sometimes I know I did not try hard enough..
So my inconsistencies are my shame..and my responsibility...
So are yours.
The outcome of so many things you listed are in your hands.

Someone gave me this piece of info decades ago and I'll share it with you..

No matter who or what you are in this life ..There will ALWAYS be someone Stronger, better and brighter than you will ever be.

Why am I so offended by your post?
Your logic is similar to the engine that drives bigotry and hatred.