11-01-2015, 06:35 PM
I've definitely being incoherent and going on a rant at many points.
But I think it's a very natural reaction for have-nots to have negative feelings or at least some sense of animosity towards the haves. Especially when it's sort of clear the have-nots can never be one of the haves.
I keep this in my mind every time I come across someone I'm baffled or amazed at. I admire people who have well developed talents / skills. Things that we have to work hard to achieve and are not born with. Many many people are smarter / brighter / etc., but in general they weren't just given this. They earned it and worked very hard for it. And in the field/research I do, I know it takes a lot of effort to be smart and knowledgeable.
On the other hand, for me, a lot of what I find physically attractive seems to be genetic / pre-determined. In general, I've found if a person is attractive, it really doesn't matter what clothes they wear, their job, education, how their hair is (or if they have any left at all), if they've showered, ,their race, etc.
And perhaps this wouldn't bother so much, except in my experience, attractive people tend to go with other attractive people regardless of any other factors. So it clearly matters a lot, if not the most important factor.
And I would say two of my current partners are very attractive guys. But they are really open minded and reasonable. They don't expect or care for their partners to be hot / gorgeous. It seems like most other guys I've met have this expectation. Otherwise the number of my partners would certainly be in the double digits.
But I think it's a very natural reaction for have-nots to have negative feelings or at least some sense of animosity towards the haves. Especially when it's sort of clear the have-nots can never be one of the haves.
Quote:No matter who or what you are in this life ..There will ALWAYS be someone Stronger, better and brighter than you will ever be.
I keep this in my mind every time I come across someone I'm baffled or amazed at. I admire people who have well developed talents / skills. Things that we have to work hard to achieve and are not born with. Many many people are smarter / brighter / etc., but in general they weren't just given this. They earned it and worked very hard for it. And in the field/research I do, I know it takes a lot of effort to be smart and knowledgeable.
On the other hand, for me, a lot of what I find physically attractive seems to be genetic / pre-determined. In general, I've found if a person is attractive, it really doesn't matter what clothes they wear, their job, education, how their hair is (or if they have any left at all), if they've showered, ,their race, etc.
And perhaps this wouldn't bother so much, except in my experience, attractive people tend to go with other attractive people regardless of any other factors. So it clearly matters a lot, if not the most important factor.
And I would say two of my current partners are very attractive guys. But they are really open minded and reasonable. They don't expect or care for their partners to be hot / gorgeous. It seems like most other guys I've met have this expectation. Otherwise the number of my partners would certainly be in the double digits.
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