03-06-2009, 02:21 AM
Look it sounds as if you're a considerate and caring couple. Just take it slow, whats the hurry? If you both care for each other it will come right if you give it time.
Don't know how much detail we're allowed to go into, or how personal such questions should get, but his experience could possibly be improved by what we might call the angle of approach. If you were to try with him lowering himself onto you then he would be in control of the situation & what was comfortable.& how fast to go. You've probably tried this but just a thought.
One other thought, if he was up for it again another time it cant have been really that terrible and, I know its easy to say and probably doesn't help, but if he really wants you to do this then you need to focus on that.
Don't know how much detail we're allowed to go into, or how personal such questions should get, but his experience could possibly be improved by what we might call the angle of approach. If you were to try with him lowering himself onto you then he would be in control of the situation & what was comfortable.& how fast to go. You've probably tried this but just a thought.
One other thought, if he was up for it again another time it cant have been really that terrible and, I know its easy to say and probably doesn't help, but if he really wants you to do this then you need to focus on that.
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