03-18-2009, 03:52 AM
I think tapalapadapa has got it pretty clear.
If this happened to me, and I have had suspicions of such in the past... it would take hella long term therapy... maybe not professional help but certainly discussions with my partner until I felt that he was being totally honest and totally devoted to our relationship.
As tapalapadapa says, it would be really tough to NOT trust him and have that constant "is he cheating now, right now" thought. It would certainly drive me insane even if my love remained.
Is a very tough one Adzz02 and I am sorry it has happened to you and hope you are able to come to good terms with your bf.
If this happened to me, and I have had suspicions of such in the past... it would take hella long term therapy... maybe not professional help but certainly discussions with my partner until I felt that he was being totally honest and totally devoted to our relationship.
As tapalapadapa says, it would be really tough to NOT trust him and have that constant "is he cheating now, right now" thought. It would certainly drive me insane even if my love remained.
Is a very tough one Adzz02 and I am sorry it has happened to you and hope you are able to come to good terms with your bf.