The Phenomenon of Homosexuality

[MikeW]

...The point is, where do you stand in all of this?

No, that can't possibly be the POINT of your post.

The point of your post is you have trust issues with men. Right?

Do you trust yourself? That's number one. If you don't trust yourself, then of course you can't trust any other man, either.

If you can be TOALLY 100% HONEST with yourself about who you are, what you want, what you don't want. How you really feel... If you can do that, then you can begin to work on your trust issues with "other" men. If you can trust yourself to be honest WITH yourself, then you'll be able to trust yourself to KNOW whether or not another man is being dishonest with you.

Let me tell you... honesty is a HUGE issue. But the reason it is is because most people (not just men, people) ARE NOT HONEST WITH THEMSELVES. They lie to themselves about everything. About who they are, what they want, what they really feel.. on and on and on. Consequently it is impossible for them to be honest with anyone else.

That's why I say, be honest with yourself first. This is NOT an easy assignment. It may take you YEARS to even begin to uncover the truth of yourself. Sure, you know some of it already.. but there's much more you don't know. I bet. I mean, true enough, IDK you, so maybe I'm wrong. But based on what you just did... created a post where you kind of danced around an important issue and then put it out there AS IF "the point" of all this was US... what we think... (utter bull shit by the way)... this says to me you are pretty clueless about yourself. So no wonder you don't trust other men.

I wouldn't either if I were you.

Oh, and I wouldn't trust you, either.