When do you think men lose their virginity?

[LJay]

The hymen can be broken in ways other than penetrative sex. That has caused a few problems here and there. The whole virginity concept is just a bunch of hooey. Define it as you will and stop worrying about the details. As for guys, what the heck. Society has little expectation that they be "pure" anyway. The fact that we are concerned about such things these days is more of an indication that we are wrestling with our understanding of gender and social roles than any real concern about physical states.