Selfies

[Jake]

You know this is one of the most constructive posts i have ever seen on GS, thankyou outright for the words and support you have given me and put out there for others to have the ability to see and help themselves.

I am at the point of giving up dating stuff, although it will still wind me up in my head, i have never had a relationship and it hurts and yes i wallow in my own pity and my own mind but others cannot know how it feels in this situation as i cant of theirs even if we are similar.

I remember taking a picture on holiday when i woke up lol a selfie and wow its awful but hey its the true visual me haha knackered and rough! I have kept it and actually find it funny.

I may have gone off track with my reply but hey i felt like typing lol

Cheers again!

As I mentioned [MENTION=23118]starlight[/MENTION] use dating site as entertainment, just like if you were playing an Internet game, play and play until you believe that something could be serious, but never takes it seriously at first because then you will ending up doubting and underestimating yourself. Communicate with people and if you see that it's leading nowhere (and trust me if you use logic you can quickly sort out the goods from the bad apples -there's more bad apples than good ones), just turn off the console for a while. View it as a game, don't expect anyone to be nice to you, or when they are too nice, you know something doesn't add up. Stay true to yourself ALWAYS so at least when one is being totally dishonest, you can't blame yourself for having been an asshole. When you come to a dating site with no agenda, you will soon use it as a forum, you get to chat with people and forget about telling too much, yes I know it's all about selling oneself, but the most successful salesman disguise a sale into a mundane chit-chat.