In a fair bit of trouble and seem to be doing alone

[Anonymous]

So much for "constructive" advice

Straight in there with the whole "Your jealous"

Hate the break it to you, but if I was jealous, I would resent the guy he is dating, to which I did make clear I held no resentment at all, in actual fact I did also state I wanted to be happy for him.

My commitment and how I feel is the issue in question and hence the reason I made this post, to see if someone who has been in a similar situation could advise. Or someone with some empathy at least.