Putting myself together again

[Camfer]

Well, you are better off facing the reality than living the fantasy you had. This is the good part of becoming dis-illusioned, hard as it may feel right now. Breaking free of the illusion really is good.

I bet you can salvage a friendship with him. But to do so, you have to be his friend with no agenda. This might take some time before you can do that.

I don't buy the story that you fell for him because he slapped your ass, made a comment, and tried to put his arm around you. You fell for him long before that.

He's not hurting you. He's now setting clear boundaries with you that you need to respect. Painful as it is to get that necklace back, it's a clear and potent message that you need to assimilate.

What is hurting you is your misplaced desire for him. That is yours to solve, with the help of professionals. It's great you got some medical treatment. Lots to talk about with your therapist.

I am sorry if this sounds harsh. If anything does not apply, please disregard it. Calling it as I see it from the limited information you provide.

Wishing you well and great insight. You can get through this.