fingering

[MikeW]

No I am either silent with no expression or making hurt sounds and like I said before the ex would not take no for answer at times and recently one night stand was the same until I stopped him and he was offended, guess I am just unlucky with men.

Yeah, IDK, but I think you should say "Don't do that. i don't like it. It doesn't turn me on." If they insist, time to get dressed and get the fuck out of there.

Seriously, I've never understood why guys insist on doing things that aren't pleasurable to their partner. It's just stupid, or, worse, disrespectful. You have every right to have boundaries or limits, to say what they are and insist they be respected.