Leo
06-14-2016, 03:45 PM
The odds are never in one's favor. There's what 3-5% of gay people on average? How many are tops or bottoms, not willing to hook up and so on. I dated a guy for a couple months who was about 75 miles away, wanted to progress very quickly, very self centered, very extroverted and wanted to be treated like royalty. Terrible experience. Just goes to show how important it is to match the personality types.
Not that Meyer-Briggs is the defining factor in personality, he was an ESFP and I'm an INFJ...talk about a very unfavorable match. Among other things.
But yeah the hookup apps aren't the best thing to go by, there are other people who are in the same boat, but like you say the odds of them being a potential match are not good. I'm not worried about competition so much, not around here anyway. It does seem that it can and does happen around here, but perhaps I need to be more patient.
Not that Meyer-Briggs is the defining factor in personality, he was an ESFP and I'm an INFJ...talk about a very unfavorable match. Among other things.
But yeah the hookup apps aren't the best thing to go by, there are other people who are in the same boat, but like you say the odds of them being a potential match are not good. I'm not worried about competition so much, not around here anyway. It does seem that it can and does happen around here, but perhaps I need to be more patient.
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