Feeling like a selfish bastard...

[princealbertofb]

Ok Baslero, then maybe some of the focus should be on something different. Since you are ready to do all this stuff for him and it's not for sex, it seems to me that you need to make time to do things together than don't involve sex, and that don't involve what I'd call chores (washing up, cooking, doing the laundry, shopping etc.) Why don't you both find an activity or two that you can do together and enjoy together, like going to the cinema, or going out to a café or bar, or going out for a walk (if he can walk despite his back injury), or going to the swimming pool or a concert, a game or a match, or a museum, or just to another town to visit and have a meal out. Maybe you both need to get out of the routine of daily life, of life in the apartment or house and see that the focus can be shifted on sharing time together (which doesn't necessarily involve sex, but would involve togetherness and intimacy).