I am frustrated with me and my boyfriend´s sex. And it´s making me feel bad

[princealbertofb]

If I may offer some advice here, @Jospy, although probably this is unnecessary advice, make sure you keep yourself clean down there, because going down on a man who isn't clean or smelly, even if you remain generally hygienic, might not be everyone's idea of fun. Some people like other people's body smells, and some don't, are inconvenienced by them and they could be put off by the act of fellatio. Some also don't like to feel gagged, so there's also that to take into account. Maybe if you discuss what it is that he finds distasteful about fellatio, you might dispell or diminish his fears. He says it's "work" and therefore not enjoyable, ok, but is it not just an excuse? There is also all the stuff to do with hygiene that we've been taught since we were kids. Our anuses and penises are meant to excrete waste material, not the most enticing idea around, is it?