Feel like Im cursed being Bi

[InbetweenDreams]

Well if you ask me it comes down to how important sex in general is, how do you feel about exploring sex with a guy....do you see yourself being in a romantic relationship with a guy?

I didn't go through everyone's replies but perhaps they need asking again since you have had a couple months to think on things....

I will say the possibility of things getting complex between you and your partner is pretty high, just depends on how deeply involved she is with you and how she feels about gay people in general... I mean if she's a Jesus freak yeah probably not going to go well, but even if she is cool with LGBT doesn't mean it's a free pass. Hopefully someone could add in on a similar experience or better advice on that...

I can relate to the whole bisexual thing being a curse. While I am pretty much gay I do still test about 60/40 predominantly gay but I still say that's pretty much bi. The only different I haven't been in an adult relationship with a girl (meaning I haven't dated a girl since I was in High School), nor have I had sex with a girl so my problem is that if I wanted to experiment with a girl, or date a girl I'm most likely going to be clueless on so many things, kids, sex with women, etc... It can be the same way with guys, there is the worry factor, but while there are plenty of jerks who think you should fuck like a pornstar there are a lot of nice guys that know what you're going through and aren't going to try to take advantage of you either -- that all comes down to being a good judge of character.

I don't know your girlfriend so I don't know how she would take you wanting to explore your sexuality with a guy, but my gut instinct is it will most likely not go over so well... Nor can I advocate cheating on her either... This is one of those gray areas and was talked about on here in another thread, lots of opinions...