Sagittarius
08-07-2016, 01:46 PM
Welcome to the forum, Jeremy. There are lots of good fellows here and I hope you will enjoy reading and writing to them.
You are obviously more serious about the relationship than he is. You must accept that. Things may do very nicely for a long time, or you may part. You have to accept that also.
You need to consider the difference between a pleasant casual relationship and a relationship that must be overly defined by one of the partners. Put simply, he does not want to tie himself down. He is not ready for that. If you wish to continue with him, you must recognize his wishes and be careful not to question them too much.
when I was young I took certain relationships very, very seriously. (They were not dating relationships.) The other parties di not. I ended up with many hurt feelings while the others simply moved on. I would have been much happier if I had learned to see that others did not see things as I did.
It sounds as though you have a good friend but not a permanent partner.
You are obviously more serious about the relationship than he is. You must accept that. Things may do very nicely for a long time, or you may part. You have to accept that also.
You need to consider the difference between a pleasant casual relationship and a relationship that must be overly defined by one of the partners. Put simply, he does not want to tie himself down. He is not ready for that. If you wish to continue with him, you must recognize his wishes and be careful not to question them too much.
when I was young I took certain relationships very, very seriously. (They were not dating relationships.) The other parties di not. I ended up with many hurt feelings while the others simply moved on. I would have been much happier if I had learned to see that others did not see things as I did.
It sounds as though you have a good friend but not a permanent partner.
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