I'm married

[NativeSon]

Men can't always control themselves, nor should they, actually.

That's a bold statement. I'd like to let it sink in.

Life is not so simple as ''that guy is married, which means I can't touch his pelvic parts''. People do what they have to do. Men feel, men have hopes, and desires. It is not something one needs to justify. It's something that is.

Sinking in.

In any case, if he was with a married man, that man was with him outside his marriage as well. It goes both ways. Both have the responsibility and it is something between those two, and no-one else.

Totally agree, except you seem to be forgetting that there is an unwitting third party involved. (Polishing my bell.)