09-01-2016, 04:25 PM
OP...the problem is that you are exposing another person to your personal choices and these choices may include contracting a sexually transmitted disease they didn't sign up for.
I don't know if you are gay or not...but I don't think being gay is a choice. I do think being true to yourself is a choice though and a lot of people choose to live a lie....not my path to walk so I stop short of judging them but I don't have much respect for that choice.
Good thing though...you don't need my respect. You probably should have your own though.
BTW...there are a lot of guys I have met over the years....even women..who HAVE been honest with their spouse and have an open relationship. The one thing that stands out about all of them.....they know who they are.... and are honest people. I think their spouses probably know and appreciate that about them and think it is worth it.
I don't know if you are gay or not...but I don't think being gay is a choice. I do think being true to yourself is a choice though and a lot of people choose to live a lie....not my path to walk so I stop short of judging them but I don't have much respect for that choice.
Good thing though...you don't need my respect. You probably should have your own though.
BTW...there are a lot of guys I have met over the years....even women..who HAVE been honest with their spouse and have an open relationship. The one thing that stands out about all of them.....they know who they are.... and are honest people. I think their spouses probably know and appreciate that about them and think it is worth it.
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