Aries
09-02-2016, 05:57 AM
Are you sure that you're gay?
it's perfectly possible that you're bisexual rather than gay. Or maybe just bicurious.
Neither of which is worth leaving a happy marriage for.
Either way from your post I get the feeling that you aren't going to be able to put the genie back in the bottle, so to speak.
You need to tell her about the feelings you're having, you don't need to tell her that you cheated, at least not yet anyway.
See how she responds to your attraction to men before you decide on a course of action.
But i strongly advise against cheating on her throughout your marriage, it'll make you miserable. Then sooner or later you will get caught and WHEN she finds out it will destroy her and destroy you. If you really love her talk to her now.
it's perfectly possible that you're bisexual rather than gay. Or maybe just bicurious.
Neither of which is worth leaving a happy marriage for.
Either way from your post I get the feeling that you aren't going to be able to put the genie back in the bottle, so to speak.
You need to tell her about the feelings you're having, you don't need to tell her that you cheated, at least not yet anyway.
See how she responds to your attraction to men before you decide on a course of action.
But i strongly advise against cheating on her throughout your marriage, it'll make you miserable. Then sooner or later you will get caught and WHEN she finds out it will destroy her and destroy you. If you really love her talk to her now.
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