The C word

[IanSaysHi]

If its just random then fine ok. I'll just sit and wait for whatever else life has in store for me. But if its genetic. I be scared of passing it down the generations should I have a child through IVF with a surrogate mother

Just take things one step at a time Concentrate on getting yourself well again before thinking of possible kids And if, *if* you have kids and find out you've passed it on, then at least they know about it and can be monitored for early signs etc. But like I say, just focus on yourself and now for the moment.