Leo
08-20-2016, 01:44 AM
I think most of us feel the same way at some point...
How long have you been talking to this guy and how have things progressed?
OCD and all that can be managed between your own will, medication and from professionals. While things like depression, anxiety, OCD are all very real problems there are things you can do to help besides medication. Our brains are very complex and literally by changing how you think by your own self observation can change how your brain is wired and you can literally learn to respond differently to things. That's just my general view and understanding of things, hope thing there is helpful. I've dealt with depression and anxiety and while I can't totally change who I am but I have made pretty good strides in dealing with some forms of my anxiety.
As far as finding a partner, it is difficult, it is not easy to try to mingle with people let alone find someone who you are comfortable with and is interested in things that you are. It works both ways, you have to find someone you like and they have to find someone they like. The truth is most guys are superficial and are boring. So this guy and his tendencies to be on some dating app might just mean either he's not fully invested in you yet or his character is a bit tarnished. I will be quite honest and say I do the same thing when I am talking to guys I do like, because often enough things change and either I end up seeing something I don't like or they find out something about me they don't like.
So after all he may feel the same way you do, worried that you might not like him that much and sometimes saying it just doesn't make it better. Again, I don't know how long you have been talking to this guy but who knows.
Sometimes I open up Grindr while I'm pooping just to scroll around. I mean it's that or I'm reading the ingredients of my deodorant...
How long have you been talking to this guy and how have things progressed?
OCD and all that can be managed between your own will, medication and from professionals. While things like depression, anxiety, OCD are all very real problems there are things you can do to help besides medication. Our brains are very complex and literally by changing how you think by your own self observation can change how your brain is wired and you can literally learn to respond differently to things. That's just my general view and understanding of things, hope thing there is helpful. I've dealt with depression and anxiety and while I can't totally change who I am but I have made pretty good strides in dealing with some forms of my anxiety.
As far as finding a partner, it is difficult, it is not easy to try to mingle with people let alone find someone who you are comfortable with and is interested in things that you are. It works both ways, you have to find someone you like and they have to find someone they like. The truth is most guys are superficial and are boring. So this guy and his tendencies to be on some dating app might just mean either he's not fully invested in you yet or his character is a bit tarnished. I will be quite honest and say I do the same thing when I am talking to guys I do like, because often enough things change and either I end up seeing something I don't like or they find out something about me they don't like.
So after all he may feel the same way you do, worried that you might not like him that much and sometimes saying it just doesn't make it better. Again, I don't know how long you have been talking to this guy but who knows.
Sometimes I open up Grindr while I'm pooping just to scroll around. I mean it's that or I'm reading the ingredients of my deodorant...
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