Asians are the most sought after ethnic minority for gay guys

[Sylph]

On my island, our demographics consist predominantly of Afro-Carib and Amerindian people, both from my island and from others however,:

Azorean
Indian
Filipino

Are the next biggest and influential races, and altogether make up the "half" percentage that contrasts the majourity as aforementioned.


And so I can only go by what I know of Asians here and how they are treated here and to a limited extent of Japan as well.

And judging by the fact that we have half "black" and half Filipino/Indian/Azorean people here:

That goes to show that these types of relations are natural and normal and to me, I've never known a race to be "fetished" in this manner...

Well outside of my going to England, and being targeted for that sole reason;

However; I think many people, especially Americans (no shade), fall for the "hype" and what they see and what they think they know or what should be, based off of very shallow understandings.

Because the world has no choice but to know of America and Americans, but that in turn makes them unable to see the rest of us and the deep idiosyncratic complexities that make us, us and so therefore they go by other sources.


Hence the: "Pretty feminine Asian boy" being docile or meek
Or that all Asians are even this way (Clearly you've never spoken to a Filipino)

Because that's what you see sometimes, but is rarely ever the case on a normal basis.


And I personally feel that white people are always either seeking:

"Exoticism and colour, but with no Drama" or just the simplicity of their own race.

And as we established, everyone personifies Asians as meek but exotic, so that's what they hope for and go after. And while many Asian cultures by and large do tend to be more polite if contrasted to Americans especially and most other places, but this doesn't count as a rule and is merely a perception.


I've spoken to many Pinoy people, both in their language Tagalog at which I'm fairly limited and in English and across the board; they detest that:

"Oh you're Asian, but so you don't seem... Asian"

Because they're typically loud and sing-songy and at times vulgar.


I think people think all Asians are Japanese and not even all Japanese are polite at all times x.x