Being Gay

[knickerbuck]

It sounds like you might be taking this in the direction of why you think you are gay or have an attraction to men. Which is also fine. So if you had no male influences in your immediate family, what kind of male figures were you drawn to as a younger person? Like what did you look to as a role model in terms of people in your community or in pop culture? Just out of curiousity.


But I had intended this thread to ask what influence, if any, that being gay has has on your identity / personality? Does being gay bring anything additional to your personality? Or maybe does it remove something from your personality?

I was inspired to ask this by some of the responses in your thread about ex gays. Is sexual attraction all that being gay is? Or are we in some ways different from people who are not gay? In terms of how we perceive, interpret, and relate to the world that is.

i think that being gay is MY personality .. lol .. didnt intend this to sound humorous Emiliano .. but i guess i just cant shrug it off, my being gay that is, the environment has already molded me into the person that i am now. there are things that are out of your knowledge and control that influence and shape you as a person...

btw, your query .. i've always been attracted to working men ..