Being Gay

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I actually see beauty in more than one "state" of being male. The pure beauty of young guys faces, then the "hot" muscular state, and while women lose their attractiveness with age, it's mostly guys who can remain attractive until their 80s.

I wanted to say something about this. To me, beauty and looks are not equivalent. I know if a guy is good-looking, but that doesn't mean that he's beautiful. Beauty is something that is inside, in his person, in who he is. I've met a number of guys who were exceptionally beautiful to me, who wouldn't be considered beautiful in looks.

Neither am I saying that looks and beauty are completely separated (they are not). Just that beauty itself is not rooted in the external looks, it's an internal quality, and it enhances and reinterprets the looks a guy has.

[MENTION=21558]Emiliano[/MENTION], I have an acquaintance who has a different take on your female clothing etc theory. He explained it to me years ago, and he said that women dress the way they do not because of men (and certainly not because of straight men), but because of other women. It's some type of competition thing between themselves.