What first attracted you to the male physique?

[meridannight]

A little belly on a guy can be very sexy in my eyes... Things that a lot of guys, including myself worry about is something I think of as a highlight.

I have to say... I know this man, who has quite a belly on him -- in every other respect his weight is completely normal, but that abdominal area is rather prominent on him. And he is very attractive and beautiful. He's stunning, actually (by who he is). I'm not attracted to men having such abdominal fat in principle, but it is a non-issue in my opinion.

PS. What I can't stand is those gay guys who choose men by such artificial standards. Those who strike off men who are a bit overweight, who don't have enough muscle, have hair in places they don't like, or a penis one inch smaller than some abstract measure they've come up with, etc. I always wonder if such guys ever met and talked to an actual real life man out there. Because such attitude does not seem real to me.