09-14-2016, 03:18 AM
Sounds like this guy had massive insecurities, good thing he is no longer int he picture.
Sometimes in life being nice is the last thing you should be doing, some people just need to be told that they're being an idiot in the way that they're acting and they're going to end up the loser in the given situation. I don't understand why people get so emotionally attached after such a small amount of time and start acting crazy over nothing, I tend to take time for the emotions to come out and by then I know enough about a person to know whether I think the relationship is worth continuing or not.
A guy I once went on 2 dates with went sour after the second date was stopped. His family were involved in a car accident while he was with me and after calling him we decided it would be best for him to see if his family was okay (they were unharmed luckily). I went straight home and just got into bed and watched some TV, eventually he text me saying everything was fine and that we should rearrange which I was 100% fine with. During a huge text conversation I got a message saying "who are you with" which was odd considering how upbeat the situation was, I explained to him that I was in bed watching TV as it was too late to be doing anything else (was around 11pm by then), Then I just got a barrage of texts asking me who I was with and what I was doing with them. Eventually I had enough of all the texts and sent a message saying something along the lines of "Okay, I'm with someone but she's the most hairy thing ever, has 4 legs and loves me more then some jealous **** could ever do over many years". You can guess what the starred word was. I think he realised I'd had enough but continued to message me and leave voicemail messages until I just blocked him on everything.
What have I learned from guys like this? If this crap starts up over nothing then its not worth continuing to see these people, especially if its early on.
Sometimes in life being nice is the last thing you should be doing, some people just need to be told that they're being an idiot in the way that they're acting and they're going to end up the loser in the given situation. I don't understand why people get so emotionally attached after such a small amount of time and start acting crazy over nothing, I tend to take time for the emotions to come out and by then I know enough about a person to know whether I think the relationship is worth continuing or not.
A guy I once went on 2 dates with went sour after the second date was stopped. His family were involved in a car accident while he was with me and after calling him we decided it would be best for him to see if his family was okay (they were unharmed luckily). I went straight home and just got into bed and watched some TV, eventually he text me saying everything was fine and that we should rearrange which I was 100% fine with. During a huge text conversation I got a message saying "who are you with" which was odd considering how upbeat the situation was, I explained to him that I was in bed watching TV as it was too late to be doing anything else (was around 11pm by then), Then I just got a barrage of texts asking me who I was with and what I was doing with them. Eventually I had enough of all the texts and sent a message saying something along the lines of "Okay, I'm with someone but she's the most hairy thing ever, has 4 legs and loves me more then some jealous **** could ever do over many years". You can guess what the starred word was. I think he realised I'd had enough but continued to message me and leave voicemail messages until I just blocked him on everything.
What have I learned from guys like this? If this crap starts up over nothing then its not worth continuing to see these people, especially if its early on.
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