There are no people of "same age" for me

[InbetweenDreams]

Well there are plenty of younger guys who prefer older guys. I don't think that it is an issue. So if you don't have a job, then what do you do? Not meaning that in a bad way, I am literally asking that question. I mean I understand that a lot of guys, even myself would be very weary about someone who is unemployed, however it isn't the what that bothers me with people it is the why.

My advice is quit looking at numbers, age is a number. Not everyone is the same. My advice is to quit sorting people into boxes to define who or what kind of person they are, first person to start with is yourself. Quit putting yourself in the "I'm hopeless" box, or they're over 35 I'm not interested.

I can tell you what I have talked to probably 100's of guys... I might have dated maybe 25... 18 never called me back.. all in the end I ended up with none. I never broke up with anyone because they didn't have a job and if you read my posts you'll probably think that was a lie. I broke up with him not because he lost his job, I broke up with him because he had zero passion, zero will to do anything about it.