There are no people of "same age" for me

[Aquarius]

So, what I'm doing:
I'm a keyboarder in a band, playing synthesizers, we have our 3rd gig next week, more gigs are planned for the rest of the year, we hope to get a record contract next year.
I took up painting again and try to get myself to a point that allows me to sell my paintings.
I'm running a website with a friend where we are blogging about the Eurovision Song Contest.
I'm visiting my parents a lot who are both around 80, and my mum is often visiting me, I spend a lot of time with her because of private reasons.
I wish I had more time to record my own music.

I will try to stop putting myself and others into boxes, but it will be hard. I think it's also a very German thing to think in boxes, more so than in America or the rest of the world I guess... but I'm not sure.

I don't want a job just to please society, or to become more interesting for men.
However, if I had a partner who manages to trigger the right keys in me, who motivates me in the right way, whether it's the right way or not is only for me to decide, I might end up getting a job.
But I only can go sort supermarket shelves for a ridiculous wage when I know that there is someone at home who loves me anyway and doesn't look down on me, no matter how bad or good his career is.