Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[Jason111]

Living together with your boyfriend will make things very hard to hide, you know. Those few friends of trust will probably have their own few friends of trust and after all, you'd be socializing and people would figure out you're a couple. So, it can't be really said you're in closet.

But when it comes to your family or staying in closet in general - completely okay. It's your life.