Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[CorsacReborn]

Hide your sexuality from your family if you feel you must, but know that this can be even harder then then what may happen if they were to find out that you're gay and have hidden it in such a way to them. I'm not saying to have to come out but you will end up unhappy with the constant lying about your life.

You also have no right to ask anyone else to lie about what their existence with you is, If I were ever asked to lie about what I was to my partner I'd consider that reason enough to doubt the relationship. Don't drag other people into your issue with yourself even if you think this won't affect them because it will.

You need to own your life and stop leasing it from other people. Disapproval from people is something that everyone faces in one way or another, its a part of life regardless of who you are.