Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[Shawn]

Remind us of your situation, [MENTION=23908]Shawn[/MENTION], and why you think you need to keep it a secret?

I'm gonna try to be brief...

I'm from a latin american country, and the general culture of this country (I don't know about others) is to force people to be hypocritical with this kind of feelings, it's well accepted to someone (even if is obviously the 'sissy kind of 'gay) to marry a woman, have some kids etc.. etc... And not, it's not everybody like this but mostly the majority of families are. example my ex came from a muslim family and everybody know he was gay and support him with 'woohoo, you're great, we love you' kind of vibe... he is very lucky, but mostly of the ordinary people (as myself) doesn't have that luckiness... And no, I'm not a Kid, I've a job and also i'm the owner of a business, I'm planning to buy my appartment soon and move there and not tell anyone who doesn't concern about the topic, that's it.