Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[sillyboy86]

May be related with this topic...
On my mind there's a guy, friend of a friend, whereby I'm hanging on sometimes recently. I knew him before as a mere acquaintance, but now that I talked with him some times, I feel weird about him, and myself etc.
It's kinda common for many of you maybe, not for me in this background, small village etc.

I'm in the closet, I don't even know a fit definition for me, I'm just a closeted queer, ok.
The fact is this guy is very feminine, but tries to be masculine (I don't even like these terms...) , always talks like a womanizer, even too much, like he needs to underline that he's straight, but except his quiet outlook everything of him screams "I'm gay!" even when he talks about girls, mostly with his girlfriends, they're watching him like PLZ and he keeps on.

So it's stupid, being closeted myself, but I don't feel the need of scream around I like him/her (I did it while teen, quite common, but not today) and I feel sorry for him, maybe he's really straight, but I don't think so, and then I think about myself and how is shitty being here for a LGBTLMNOPQRSTUWXYZ person...