Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[Scootaloo]

I would never tell anyone what to do, so yeah you could live that way, but I couldn't imagineit being a very healthy lifestyle.

Lying and deception will hurt your loved ones more then finding out you are gay. They probably already suspect it anyway.

It sounds more like your ashamed of yourself then afraid of what others think.

Be true to yourself, if others can't except that, fuck them. but you will be surprised how many will come around.