10-28-2016, 02:49 AM
Didn't see this topic come back up, I assume it died off. So here's the update: I went ahead with it. I hinted at wanting to do it and he was for it so I started sending pictures. Yes, I know the risks involved. But I thought about it and came to the conclusion that I'm an adult and have to accept that every decision I make comes with consequences. If this somehow, someday comes back to bite me I'll own that. I'll take the mindset that I have now, I wanted to express my sexuality in a way that felt good to me and in some form or another felt "worth it". If it does indeed end up being a mistake, then I accept that responsibility. After all, I can't play the "I'm an adult" card without accepting consequences of my behavior (though that same paradox is becoming very popular nowadays I think).