10-08-2016, 12:53 AM
[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION] Hello!, well what can I say not because you are smart means that you will never going to make a mistake.... the last one I did was so huge that I still regreting it with at least 10 trillion cells of my human being lol. and yeah was exactly the way you described your situation and yes only happened twice in my life (the last one at 21, so last year)... I forgot about everything I said in the post, I got totally carried away, I was thinking was the right one, I was totally blinded and from one day to another, I discovered everything I didn't knew... or worst I didn't wanted to knew, summing it all I felt the dumbest person ever. (maybe one of this days I'm gonna deepen the subject)
And yeah... usually smart people tends to overthink about themselves, because they understand about the way other people feels, (empathy) so usually smart people can make an sketch about how other people will see them in the way of theirs minds would. sometimes the portray is right, and some are portrayed about the way you see your own being, so when you start to recognize your own flaws sometimes you tend to believe the others can see them too... with time you learn what people see about you, are just in two main things, body language and words, and also that you can modify that in the way you want others to perceive yourself. but thats another topic too lol.
Usually people that don't have a personality or are faking one, will think that people with real ones will be boring, fearful or something else.
Also we are in the same situation haha, I want to find someone near home, or that I can see everytime without too much effort.
Winning the lottery huh? you know what's worst than that? winning and then losing it all... like if you won 1 billion and spent just 1 thousand, and then losing the luggage in a taxi to the airport.... that happened to me with somebody a couple years ago. lol
and yeah I also still thinking if that kind of things just happens once in life, or maybe if destiny can give second chances, maybe not with the same person, but to have the oportunity to find "true love" again.
And yeah... usually smart people tends to overthink about themselves, because they understand about the way other people feels, (empathy) so usually smart people can make an sketch about how other people will see them in the way of theirs minds would. sometimes the portray is right, and some are portrayed about the way you see your own being, so when you start to recognize your own flaws sometimes you tend to believe the others can see them too... with time you learn what people see about you, are just in two main things, body language and words, and also that you can modify that in the way you want others to perceive yourself. but thats another topic too lol.
Usually people that don't have a personality or are faking one, will think that people with real ones will be boring, fearful or something else.
Also we are in the same situation haha, I want to find someone near home, or that I can see everytime without too much effort.
Winning the lottery huh? you know what's worst than that? winning and then losing it all... like if you won 1 billion and spent just 1 thousand, and then losing the luggage in a taxi to the airport.... that happened to me with somebody a couple years ago. lol
and yeah I also still thinking if that kind of things just happens once in life, or maybe if destiny can give second chances, maybe not with the same person, but to have the oportunity to find "true love" again.
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