Why I am still single...

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[MENTION=23908]Shawn[/MENTION] Well I know what you mean. I kind of think my standards might be to high in some regards. No so much looks, I think I'm pretty well dialed in on what I find attractive for the most part. Personality, it seems many guys lack. I find that a lot of guys just aren't interesting. I used to get myself all wrapped up in someone just because they looked cute and so on...that was for the most part the case until recently.

When you meet someone that you click with and I don't mean "Oh you like Chinese food too! That's cool," but being able to connect or feel that you're able to connect with someone on many different levels, that's another thing then there is just a way someone carries themselves maybe an unspoken self-confidence. I can't quite put my finger on it, I don't know but it's almost like you feel the warmth from them in how they act. You get a feeling about who they are and what they're about and it is pretty well a genuine thing. However, it is all but a feeling, not knowing.... That's the hard part. Not sure if any of that makes sense. I am one that often gets a gut feeling about someone, in my case it is often not good...or uncertain. I have once been talking to someone who I didn't feel comfortable with, first he wanted to come over then he tells me he had a boyfriend and he was going to come over. I didn't know either of them real well but I had heard some rumors and as soon as I got off the phone with them I blocked them on FB, phone number you name it... Just had a very bad feeling about the guy and that his motives weren't good. I could have been wrong. I guess what I'm saying is my intution is kind of like on steroids...so when i feel really good about someone...warm fuzzy feeling...they probably are a good person...could be exaggerated. No one is perfect of course but very very few have made me feel that way. Now is it something tangible, is it real, is it something that can be measured or is it all in my head....that I can't answer. All I can say is that when it is bad it is usually bad and when it is good it is usually good.

Anyway, that's enough about intuition and my ramblings...

I do think I get what you mean about having things your way sort of speak. I feel like I expect things to go a certain way, or a certain path and things usually don't. Things are easily confused.