10-22-2016, 08:19 AM
[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION]
I don't know why are you keep trying to hurry things. just keep cool dude, look I remember being that way last year and this behavior just led me to devastation and just more frustration. love can't be forced and anybody likes to be feeling forced to love someone, example. I'm one of those guys, the most someone is trying to put the "pedal" on the "relationship" the most I feel an "intense" vibe from the guy, and I just walk away from them, even if he's a "good" one. I'm not talking about myself as an good option for anybody, I'm just talking about my behavior as a common sense. I guess you are 30 you still have time, even if you get 40 or 50, when true loves finally arrive, that age will not really matters.
I found the definition of "true love" when I was 16, I was in a main mature relationship at my fucking 16 adolescent years old hahaha. with someone of my own age, but mature as myself. then that was over, I've had to discover the real world, put the feet on the ground and met again with real shitty people of my real age. I was so upset, I wanted everything my way again that I began to made so huge mistakes in forcing everything. the worst thing that I did was release, when I get very frustrated of not finding another "right one" I just began to accept meet everybody, even if I knew at first sight that those kind of dudes wasn't my type, and then I began to accept their demands in order to force something to work... and that's the way I depressed, because I forget to care about myself just because I was trying to recover something I lost years before.
I don't know when love is gonna touch my life, but what I learned was to relax, focus on my main professionals goals, like having my own home, my own buss. and pay my own bills with my own money, construct a career, so I know I will not be losing time by just focusing in one thing, I LEARNED that I don't have to do ANYTHING to AGREE anybody. my life is the way it is, I'm still constructing, remodeling it, I don't have to be perfect to anyone. and by the way, nobody is really trying.
I don't know why are you keep trying to hurry things. just keep cool dude, look I remember being that way last year and this behavior just led me to devastation and just more frustration. love can't be forced and anybody likes to be feeling forced to love someone, example. I'm one of those guys, the most someone is trying to put the "pedal" on the "relationship" the most I feel an "intense" vibe from the guy, and I just walk away from them, even if he's a "good" one. I'm not talking about myself as an good option for anybody, I'm just talking about my behavior as a common sense. I guess you are 30 you still have time, even if you get 40 or 50, when true loves finally arrive, that age will not really matters.
I found the definition of "true love" when I was 16, I was in a main mature relationship at my fucking 16 adolescent years old hahaha. with someone of my own age, but mature as myself. then that was over, I've had to discover the real world, put the feet on the ground and met again with real shitty people of my real age. I was so upset, I wanted everything my way again that I began to made so huge mistakes in forcing everything. the worst thing that I did was release, when I get very frustrated of not finding another "right one" I just began to accept meet everybody, even if I knew at first sight that those kind of dudes wasn't my type, and then I began to accept their demands in order to force something to work... and that's the way I depressed, because I forget to care about myself just because I was trying to recover something I lost years before.
I don't know when love is gonna touch my life, but what I learned was to relax, focus on my main professionals goals, like having my own home, my own buss. and pay my own bills with my own money, construct a career, so I know I will not be losing time by just focusing in one thing, I LEARNED that I don't have to do ANYTHING to AGREE anybody. my life is the way it is, I'm still constructing, remodeling it, I don't have to be perfect to anyone. and by the way, nobody is really trying.
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