10-12-2016, 11:54 AM
[MENTION=14705]Pix[/MENTION] Yep people can have a lot of wealth by cutting costs. Actually an RV is pretty dang expensive to maintain...and they're just expensive. The problem is that commercialism says buy all this stuff you can be happy, but it doesn't make you happy, so you buy more and more stuff...
Unfortunately though I feel a lot of people judge based on how much money you make. I feel like I have a good job and no I don't make a fortune but I don't have my own place, not yet anyway. So I feel like when I'm talking to guys when the question comes up I feel like the conversation has ended. People don't think of how expensive it is to have your own place and really they were trying to figure out where we can fuck too. I probably could have moved out and had that freedom but there's a price to pay, I feel like living alone would be very limiting, I mean you have to pay rent or buy a house. Then there are all the joys and horrors that comes with that. I just hoped to either find a roommate who I feel like I can trust (hasn't happened) or end up with a relationship. Plus I always felt like I should get a place I could afford on my own. Well like with men, I also have standards on what I live in and where I live too. At least around here. Maybe I'm a little stuck up but that's why I am in the current position I'm in and no I don't like it and while 5 years ago I said I wanted to rent a house not and apartment, I'd take an apartment today. Anyway, I know I will get there, just have to get my stuff straightened out but will take a little bit. Definitely need to get better at budgeting, not that I'm bad, I just can't stick to one or are actively tracking one....which kind of defeats that. I do think making some of the choices I made will help...
Unfortunately though I feel a lot of people judge based on how much money you make. I feel like I have a good job and no I don't make a fortune but I don't have my own place, not yet anyway. So I feel like when I'm talking to guys when the question comes up I feel like the conversation has ended. People don't think of how expensive it is to have your own place and really they were trying to figure out where we can fuck too. I probably could have moved out and had that freedom but there's a price to pay, I feel like living alone would be very limiting, I mean you have to pay rent or buy a house. Then there are all the joys and horrors that comes with that. I just hoped to either find a roommate who I feel like I can trust (hasn't happened) or end up with a relationship. Plus I always felt like I should get a place I could afford on my own. Well like with men, I also have standards on what I live in and where I live too. At least around here. Maybe I'm a little stuck up but that's why I am in the current position I'm in and no I don't like it and while 5 years ago I said I wanted to rent a house not and apartment, I'd take an apartment today. Anyway, I know I will get there, just have to get my stuff straightened out but will take a little bit. Definitely need to get better at budgeting, not that I'm bad, I just can't stick to one or are actively tracking one....which kind of defeats that. I do think making some of the choices I made will help...
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