10-18-2016, 12:58 AM
First, I'd like to say welcome to GS.
It's funny how alone we can feel on planet so populated with people... We latch onto people that make us feel, whether it's good feelings or negative ones. And that's what this assistant does TO YOU. He makes you feel wanted... he makes you like you're not alone.
But you have ask yourself, "what does he do FOR YOU?"
It sounds like, imo, you have and you would do anything for this guy. He knows this and may be taking advantage of you. Getting jealous of the women he's involved with is a natural extension of your feelings for him.
Having a sexual relationship with a coworker creates all kinds of problems. But having feelings for him makes things worse, especially considering him being "straight." What happens when he wants to get serious with a woman and ends things with you? That's the kind of questions you have to ask yourself.
Sounds like you have a decision to make. Neither choice is a win, but one is better than the other. I'm sure you can meet someone else. You just have to make time for yourself. Los Angeles has a huge gay scene. Make use of it.
It's funny how alone we can feel on planet so populated with people... We latch onto people that make us feel, whether it's good feelings or negative ones. And that's what this assistant does TO YOU. He makes you feel wanted... he makes you like you're not alone.
But you have ask yourself, "what does he do FOR YOU?"
It sounds like, imo, you have and you would do anything for this guy. He knows this and may be taking advantage of you. Getting jealous of the women he's involved with is a natural extension of your feelings for him.
Having a sexual relationship with a coworker creates all kinds of problems. But having feelings for him makes things worse, especially considering him being "straight." What happens when he wants to get serious with a woman and ends things with you? That's the kind of questions you have to ask yourself.
Sounds like you have a decision to make. Neither choice is a win, but one is better than the other. I'm sure you can meet someone else. You just have to make time for yourself. Los Angeles has a huge gay scene. Make use of it.
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