What does being submissive me to you?

[artyboy]

As long as it doesn't go too far, then no. I don't want to be disrespected, but I do like to be bossed around a bit and controlled in the bedroom. There is a difference. As long as both parties know that it only goes so far and is all in fun, then I think it's pretty healthy. I see it all the time with straight couples.

I know what you mean.

What I find odd about myself is normally I'm quite masculine but in the bedroom I'm feminine.